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Almost all of us will present and at the end of our presentation. We will not be able to know if we really engage our audience or we will basically they’ve heard our audience a way. Many of us will say I did my best. I had lots of content. I taught. All my knowledge but the audience did not really
engage with me and audience did not get me.
Did not join my program or did not join my. It were a mailing list or they did not take actions I didn’t get called back up as a percentage.
So the question is what’s wrong with the presentation because if anybody. And and everybody stand over there. And present you all must have at least one in the audience call you back or come back and ask your question. So the question is why the audience are not here for you.
So my question to you
is what do you do in your presentation.
Audience will engage with
a good content
audience will engage engage with good sic which. Audience will engage with a speaker who will be
dynamic enough and provide the right material in the right way so you can be able to talk to them. So what is the top of challenges for your presentations. Why your presentation did not work.
My name is A while back that we have been professor and
and structure. Mark Terence sales from the stage specialist and I’m here to share with you. The secrets I have
on how to engage my audience so I can achieve results by the end of my presentation. I have been around for a one thousand nine hundred ninety two and. I during the years I was able to
collect and figure out
a few tips. And a few things which will work for me and work for anybody. And from my education my my practice my experience. I developed a system which is. I cannot tell you it will guarantee
a ninety percent engagement which is I can as a matter of fact because whenever I apply my sequences and my systems and my in my classes and my audience usually. It is not hundred percent engaging is about ninety percent engaging. But I would guarantee if you start applying this tool you will immediately have results and you will immediately have engagement and more audience will come to
join your program or ask you follow up question where you can sell or do
help them with your program.
If they want to ask you what is the top challenges for you to
provide an engaging sequence out there in
your fear and your ego
confidence and your trust that what you know is better. Which is not necessarily true
will be the main
number three challenge you have because many of. We have an eagle many of us will say you know I want to do a contant I want to do a demo I want to do I want to do but. You never ask yourself what what what about the other side. I did have one of my clients his.
Healer and he was always feeling good about his methods and the sequence. He was feeling good about his is missing. He was feeling good about what he can do for his crimes. So he will always stand and talk about what exactly is doing.
He wandered around for about two years and a year and a half to two years and he usually have between two to four clients a month
I met him and I present to him what I can do for him and he he said like this my last resources let me give it a try.
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modify and I suggest some of the patient what he’s doing for example he does not talk at all about his own program and his own techniques. He would converse most to moderate clients from his audience and it when he was very resistant he did not like it.
It took him five weeks to be convinced to try and in the first two weeks after that he was able to conclude between seven to nine clients on his working days which means
he had roughly more than twenty plus Comodo new clients a week.
So as a part time here there who’s looking at these numbers. He made a decision to move for out from his full time job and just focus on healing.
So if you would your figure ego and you’re a confidence and you’re feeling. That what you know is good and you try to apply some other tools when you’re stuck. It’s maybe the way
to Day In particular I was in IP presentation and the presenter wanted to do. I’d like them all and she was so concerned about so many
things which can go wrong. So I step down and I ask you know what you why do you want to do them. What is the reason for you to do for me and them. You know that you don’t do a demo because or you must not like my advice you must not do them. It’s not because everything will go around assembly if you have one thousand minutes to twenty minutes to ninety minutes presentation. How many of us who are really learned something from seeing a flashy screams. Even when we have three hours working groups for hours working groups and each one has its own computer which is on interface. And is trying to fix a problem. Not everybody in the room will follow and understand what the reason for us having a demo or having a life hands on session. So if you want to do a demo on your presentation. You have to be careful because there is no need for a demo I.E. went into so many of these financial advisor presentations and investors and sister to shoe all of the Steve’s tables having stock and numbers and how the stocks are changing and what the high performance companies and what their strategy is I stop there and that’s Ponsonby question what is in it for me why you show me the stables as a matter of fact if I am hiring you as a financial advisor or investors of my behalf. I am hiring you so you can take care of these details and these tables so I don’t have to see them. So if you come and say I will I will use your money and this is a team as you have to say you have basically defeating the point. So I went in and
I want to say that you need to value what you get what you give your audience every single second in your audience. It must to have an evolving procedures toward your journey or your program. You never go and just do the stuff because you feel it’s cool coming back to the demo. I even asked some of the partner of this particular individual which is for just a sec of
upset anybody. I didn’t want to say Who was she. But who was he. But I spoke to store three of her partners on or her colleagues in the business and each one was surprised why you cannot give it. Imma be able to learn from them and I say wait a minute wait a minute. People will never learn from them at them or is has no
place in an introduction presentation or an educational presentation at them as a filler that you want to tell everybody
that I am not here to give you more value other value is done now we have to see how it works if you are telling me what the valley on the other Use your business what it was your system. Why do I need to hire you. He would ensure me how to do it as a matter of fact when we talk about presentations. We always say you have to answer that five W.’s and this W. as I say I was selected not because my first name is why all this deputies are selected because it’s how people runs a business you explain the five Ws you never show the help at them and it shows how if you show a demo it means you show me how what you’re supposed to be a keep secret. Now if I move away from this point and say OK so what about if the demo will fail for any reason Internet blockage server down some. Saying ground. I don’t know any of these reasons will make you look like a fool if you can show me a demo which is connecting on different servers and you say I will show you now the demo and this is there was not work.
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It means you are not good.
So when you try to show them as you have to be careful there was no place in any presentation demo has a place only in working sessions and you have to figure out how we can do it so. The second chorus sing I learn also is.
The second the challenge they have in my in this particular presentation I can share with you is you don’t take time.
You don’t take advantage of don’t take time. You don’t move. You are slowing moving move or if somebody will come and say I am showing you a sequence that or a message elegy to present to engage your audience and make you rock Blackstar Usually we are voices particular individuals when you have all these individuals and you take time to fix your presentation and the first explosion Titian have. You visited spreading their message out and the word out that you are not good.
You are indeed harming yourself and your business and instead of moving into an area where you are trying to rock as a star. If you are harming your business.
Don’t blame others and yourself if you gave two or three or four different presentations and all of them are not performing are not good. What what you will know about you. The see another performer. So what will happen in your next and after for the presentation. When you have individuals coming in. If you don’t engage in. Audiences audience will not come back. And this what you don’t understand
you need to make sure that you don’t consume your if real presence here to
reduce and damage your business if I say the second this challenge for presenter to finish their presentation is they don’t take time. They don’t take actions they don’t take actions on a time and there I can tell you one thing. If you don’t take an action to fix your presentation as soon as you have been told You don’t care if you don’t take actions now what will happen he don’t care about your business your business will not perform. You have to give a chance you have to listen to others. Otherwise it will not work. So
that last challenge for present or is
the present of themselves.
There’s other themselves are bounded by their ego the other day there was a marketing company which is amazingly interesting because when you see a marketing company. It’s trying to sell their own product as they try to teach we have to market and the main presenters are for more than one hour reading a script from his i Phone. I’m glad that you have an i Phone this what I can tell you I love the fact is you have an i Phone and my question to you is why you don’t have an i Phone seven. Why do you have an i Phone as an i Phone seven. If you are the top notch guys the market. You are now listening to with my L.B. ultimate show.
I never seen a presenter who just said that there is a script. And if the script will come because they say oh yeah I don’t want to miss anything from the government who cares about the government. It’s all about engagement. If you don’t know how to market if you I don’t understand how you communicate and how you market at present dish and how it comes you market your business as a. Company
you have to be Kerik careful you have to take care of the audience you have to tell the audience what they need to know they have to engage with you. Everything is an engagement. There is nothing
on education. Nothing on sales if you don’t engage me it cannot educate me is so central if you don’t understand this concept. You should not be on the stage. So when you come and say No no I want to use this because I forgot forget what
evilness wants to use
not they’re not bored because they forgot they forgot what
if you cannot know what is’ your present ation is not a society if you cannot talk about your presentation without having notes. It means you are not expert. Why would I have why when I was I listen to you. Why do you have a script. Oh please read the script and I can read it I don’t have to read English.
Oh you know what if I don’t know how to read English I will find somebody who can read it for me
engaging is not about script engaging is not about presence in gauge it is not about what you can do and what you can say engaging it’s a hard connection between and you and the audience. If you want to learn how to do the hard connection. Let me know I can show you
we have not. We had we have not been born
with engagement skills.
We have we did not but we were not born with
engaging sequences. We learned this tool this too. The skulls are level. The idea of having somebody was a Christmas to engage. I’m sorry. There is not such a thing this Christmas is resultant af. Lots of training and lots of process which is can happen at any time of your age and your career to make you the focus. Point is a focal point to make you engage with others. So
if you listen to this particular but cast.
I would areas you connect with me I will show you I will show you the minimum stuff you have to do you have to start to move away. We are the first enemy is in for you as present or you are someone was worrying about the too much let it go let the presentation go from your body let it go away. Give it to us. Don’t hold it back. Don’t try to articulate it right. I have been asked so many questions. How do I engage when I have an accent.
I have I And that is that their size one time when I was standing there in the front of a new audience for me and I said Do you really notice you have an accent. This is not we enjoy what you’re saying.
So accent is not a barrier your knowledge is not a barrier your communication is not a barrier. You are what you say is not a barrier your visual image visuals are not a barrier the barrier is you you are someone who elect to do. Interesting and acceptable tasks and statements from the stage which shut us down. I wasn’t I want to share with you. The story because it was very interesting. There was this enterprise she sold like her business for multi million dollars and she was coming and talk about how great she was doing and her journey away from her journey is wrong because you don’t stand there and tell and to pronounce that it’s Duff it’s difficult. You shouldn’t do it. I would not do it if I have a choice because this is our zone messages out there and the printer ship is fun and the printer ship is something you have to love doing it. You have to live and it. If you don’t live and if you don’t do it. That’s it. But our way from this point this particular individual stand up and just give us like forty minutes or seven minutes of stuff I would put the stuff because. There was no structure whatsoever and to be honest with you. I’m not sure why she’s on the stage. If you make multi-million dollar and you stand on the stage you have to be that you have to train yourself have to stand up to what sequences are you don’t stand on the stage because you are a successful whatever
it just it does make sense. There are so many speakers. I would say that are not so much at the printer but engaged as are so many people who made so much money and they don’t they don’t stand on the stage because they don’t know the art and science of it so she is standing right there.
Everything was done was wrong she has a microphone it was not right. This big voice was not right. The monotone she has was just so annoying all the stories she has assumed much details very long not engaging I said What is that. But before I really was surprised I have to listen to the following. She said Oh OK guys with a minute. I have to review my notes and you know what. And it’s exactly something she said from the state. I’m not good in the repairing the speeches. I would call my you know my my swords in a sticky and I started I glued them to this particular page
and sure there’s a page. So I’m not sure why you want to share with me that you have slobby. If I am having as you might engage with you as you might have a respect was for evil. Why is the value of you showing me the just loving slobby one who does not repaired Well why do I need to see that. Why did you tell me you don’t know as you that the only one who has a contest and the only one who has a content and the only one who know what you are teaching is Will is YOU not me. So if you stand and talk and say something which was not complete. Nobody cares because we will not know till you make a full disclosure and. The minute you make a full disclosure what could happen.
You are now listening to with my L.B. ultimate show. The minute you make a full disclosure I will not be able to connect with you because I’m not here. I’m here to see a role models. I am here to see individuals who devoted enough time to prepare for themselves to come to present in front of me if I devote enough time as an audience as a speaker as an audience or a guest to come to park my car and they my car which is not free. I pay my car parking fees and then I come and I go to Europe you own your own space edition and I climb the stairs and I take the elevator and I have to sit there and do it for you for YOU COME TO SEE I’M NOT READY by showing Misa sticky pads and then are you message guys out that you message. If you don’t understand the art of engaging connectors me get this together I’m offering it to you for no cost. Let me know you want to invite me for a coffee I will set you up for half an hour to an hour and I will show you the easy steps a sequence which can get you engage with your audience. If you have Siri or more in the room as a matter of fact if you have even one in a room. If you understand the psychology this logics Why do people come to here to listen to you. Not even buy but is different story but is different structure but is different. Six sequence. If you want to understand why do we sit and listen till
you should talk save your business. Leave your business alone. Leave your business. Where
is neutral right now don’t damage it don’t come and say I want to do this. I want to do that. I want to speak. Why didn’t I have to tuck and one more is one more thing I want to do before I close a particular but cast many of us will go and collect our friends you know
if I am broke
who is who are my friends
and the videos what broke like me
if I’m H Who are my friends people who are rich like me. So when you collect everybody in your organization and you say yeah we are a start up company and they want to present and we are doing just present ation let’s let me let’s help me and let me rehearse on your presentation.
You are presenting in front of the wrong audience because your partners in the company are people who work for you and the company your friends. I’m not your audience. I’m not your buyers. Moreover it’s one of them. He never present before because if one of them has a better presentation skills and you most likely as enter Pranav used to get at them
is OK now you guys you have a good the skills and you understand the audience. So why you don’t present on my behalf.
So the fact is none of them is presenting and you are the only one and you brand. It brings the guys who don’t present don’t understand selling from the stage or selling from a platform or presenting from a platform
give you feedback
I can tell you one thing. This is we call it a blind leading the blind
blind individuals don’t understand the business don’t understand how to type don’t understand how to speak and what they do they try
and I have to use a word or try here. They try their best
to get you behind because I don’t understand. When someone rang his family and say I’m giving have this presentation tomorrow. Let me show you what I would present
his family will cheer out for him will say you know what good that you are the good that you know my husband you know his wife will say my husband you look awesome. Because none of this individuals what actually presenting this or your family
and even you can say I was given this example to there somebody said all but my own my but my family is a businessman is a business man and to pronounce it
with a minute or so of these are successful people why you are not working with them
the story is not to present in front of somebody who will
schmoozy Oh and say you are great. The story is you present in front of somebody who understand how the message can get across
the story is to present in front of the coach who understand the presentation how it works if any coach will tell you you start with your title and you start with your who you are and your mission and your various
fire this coach. I’m telling you fire. If you want to achieve results fire this coach if any present present or coach will say you want your presentation title followed by your man as in the very first right.
You have must fire this coach he just not the way it works. Nobody cares about your name. Nobody cares about your value nobody cares about your mission. Nobody cares about your wife. They don’t care is only about this information a certain point when they understand how strong you are and they see your market presence and then the stand. What that you can to give it to me.
Thank you for listening to went way out the ultimate shell. The very first step. I gave to anybody in this business. If you have a coach or a trainer or a mentor whoever will ask you to want your presentation with a title up front with your name and articulate your value and what you do for life.
I would tell you fire the fire this coach. I want to share with your story. I have business coaches that everybody everybody needs stage he would have coaches and you know what if somebody will tell you I don’t have coaches
you know you don’t don’t don’t really work with them because if you don’t have coach means you don’t develop yourself. You need some other set of eyes of professional eyes to evaluate what you do. If you don’t have coaches don’t work with you don’t work with anybody not have coach. And if I’m not
I don’t feel comfort to share with you who are my coaches there is a problem he has because so if you work with somebody. So I have my two coaches and
I as everybody you know like what is the business will start to show good the growing habit. You’re always try to bring your coaches to life seminars and say Can you show me how I can do better. So this particular coach It took me to a specific point. And now I’m ready to go to the next level.
So I sat there and I gave my present ation my two coaches came and said on a different drive a discussion. It was great. I learned a lot very engaging
I have two recommendations for you. So what he said why you should start with your title and this is the start was used by you or
I said. The squidge but why
they could not justify
and this is the exact moment I stop interacting with these coaches full stop. Why because when I tell you I don’t care about who you are till I know what VERY I will get from you
if you start with your title with your name. Nobody cares. Nobody cares about your value. I only care. Once I made a decision in my unconscious mind after working with you. So
if you are someone you are someone first enemy for your presentation. You are the one whose first you are the one who is doing all of this mystics. You are the one who will come and say I am not ready. I need this showers I need this piece of paper. I need a Tele Promp a.
if you cannot be more eyes your presentation let me know there are techniques
visualization techniques that still allows you to look in front of your client in their deep eyes and then wise what you want to talk about as a matter of fact that that’s technique of this particular methodology is will get you to the level that you can remember word by word
for ninety minutes without the rising anything at work these techniques valid. It takes about two hours to learn to stick nick it takes about maybe two three hours
to implement them to master twenty minute presentation
and if you want to be the masters of it. It may take a few rehearsals. So wasn’t three four days you should be able to master your signature presentation and you must have only one presentation.
If you want to engage me was any of your material. If you want to get me to sign up. Or give you part of my business you must have one presentation and only one. So I’m summarizing here what you have
and what I have been talking about is I was give you my view on my party of on the challenges which is stand between you and your audience
and the first number three challenges your ego and fear. Number two challenges you don’t have it don’t take actions of time and number one it challenges you. This is a while but are we
with you. I have the name of my program.
And as I said click on the link below. If you need to connect with me so I can get yo
assessment tools to show you what you can do with your presentation or you can e-mail me at info@withwael
looking forward for your feedback. Thank you
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It’s always a question.
Are we poor or are we rich or was the difference between the rich and the poor. Is the function of how much money do you have in the bank. And. There are so many people who have money in the bank however as I don’t feel very much.
If I want to start with an example like if I give you a will a hundred thousand dollars make you rich or with a million dollars will make your age or will ten million dollars makes you each.
If you have a million dollar and you don’t have the right attitude. To feel rich and to act as a rich you will feel poor. There are so many examples around you where you have friends you have.
Individuals neighborhoods were people having houses cars.
And big numbers in the bank investment and they feel poor. They feel they want to be very church so it’s always a question like What is. The distinction between the rich and the poor.
The rich it’s a function of attitude so the rich people will have goals were set down and goals poor they will never have plans or save is not right the goals down so they go by the flow if I reach at it you would start with writing goals and you write them down the very first step is you would want your exam down and you will look for ways and opportunities to achieve and write your goal.
That number eight. In the list of rich versus poor will be are you looking for an opportunity rich people they look for opportunities. Feeling great it makes you something called Cool and they look for opportunity.
And when you look for a portion of the as a rich attitude you will look for ways. And you look for how you make this opportunity works for you.
Richmond tell it were late use jump on any possible opportunity the very first opportunity will come to you you will jump on it on the other hand poor will always find a way. To walk away from Opportunity one good.
Example of how the poor attitude will dominate is when you say well you try to find why this opportunity will not work to give you an example like Let’s talk about rich examples attitude versus poor attitude by example so if we give you an opportunity to go to meet.
With a celebrity and we say let’s give you this opportunity and say let’s assume this event this has cost you no money. Just you goes in and attend so people say oh you know what there will be a long lines this event will be very well attended I will not find a close parking lot I will find. Long lines are you serious this celebrity would be in there.
However if somebody was rich attitude will jump on the opportunity OK let’s go check it out let’s to get a bus let’s go by train so you look at it in a while somebody is going by train because they don’t want to ask the question about parking lot and. Just walk from the train station to the venue to meet this particular celebrity on the other hand the poor guy will say OK I have a car and drive my car I want to park downtown I want to go to this venue if it’s an immediate demonstration of how what it should look for an opportunity to grow or to meet somebody versus a poor who will not find it so many times when we invite individuals to workshops or seminars. They say oh you know what it will not work this guys will be safety they will just say last they said our stuff which will not work without even examining it out there people will go.
With open mind and say let’s look at if they have an opportunity for me and then they evaluate.
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Attitude of friction versus poor rich have large libraries they always have contact they have information access however is a poor attitude will not appreciate libraries will not appreciate contact they only have a very large T.V. in their.
Living room and they watch this T.V. I’m not saying that rich people should not have a T.V. you may have a T.V. one or two or three or four. The amount of time you sit in front of the T.V. not getting information in but just watching the show was shows and different.
Places to just let the time Best Buy It’s a complete different attitude of a poor guy who wants just to lose time however on that side they have libraries so you may have a T.V. as a poor as a rich individual however this T.V. will be equipped with libraries and information which help you grow or help. Your business will have to sell to grow.
That number have.
Some six number six.
Differentiation between rich and poor is rich will continue to learn.
They will continue to apply what they learn so our rich mentality will always be looking for information and looking for opportunities and look and they do have the large libraries where you they withdraw this information from as I try to match the opportunity on the other hand the poor people only know how to earn so they look at earning and how much they make Brouwer as the decision or the great area so they don’t take actions to learn and develop themselves.
In number five.
Rich people will trade money for time so rich people will buy.
Services which will save them time. On the other hand poor mentality will trade time to money and when you trade month time for money you will basically work hard. On an hourly rate so if I ask a question if you have an opportunity to hire someone to do the job. Will you hire him or not.
And usually people will say we don’t afford it so if you get somebody expert to do something which she want to do.
Any any any function. For sure an expert who is doing it on a daily basis.
He will do it in a shorter time then you will start to learn how you do things. And then you do it and when you do it you will not be effective you are NOT be efficient and once you are not effective and not efficient you spend more time trying to save a little bit of money.
However if you come up with the money upfront. And you give it to someone this expert will take it and save you the time and you can achieve more stuff in the same amount of time because this particular tasks are paid for and done by somebody who will not take the long time as you are to know to learn.
And this is one of the main differentiation when you approach someone and say here’s the service I can do it for you I’ve been doing it for others it will cost you that much they say oh you know what I can do it myself.
And they spent time trying to do it to save a little bit of money and they spent a long time and they do it wrong and they don’t buy the stick it comes to a story which is always an example here there is a factory working and this factory in suddenly has a problem and they could not get the production to sustain the level. So the owner of the factory cola called few individuals so one guy came in and said you know what I will say I will can fix it for you it will cost you one hundred thousand dollars plus parts.
So the owners ask how long would it take you.
To fix it the guy said in a couple of hours.
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Or maybe less.
So he looked at him and said hundred thousand dollars for a couple of hours.
Then I said yes it did not take me a couple of hours to learn what to fix.
It takes me years I learned this over a lifetime experience for me so what you are paying for it is not the work is learning I took and I apply as experiment I have and every time I failed before and I coming back right now and trying to do it and learn how to do it and that’s why I can do it for you for two hours like I said No no I don’t need that I will find other solutions and then he starts this owner to bring other people who claims are experts come to him and say yeah yes fix this powers they actually exist part and the manufacturing line did not work it always have this defect defective outcome where nobody was able to fix so after one month when this production line was not working and this owner was paying all the salaries for every single employee here he called up the other guy and said you know what the very first one said you know what I’m now ready to pay one hundred thousand dollars he said sorry sir now my rate is two hundred fifty.
The owner said oh you know I have no other choice you have to come and fix it because I’m losing revenue I’m losing income and the same time I’m assuming all these expenses So this expert came in and said you know now we have a different deal because all the other individuals you brought in before me taking the job they actually make the problem worse and worse they wasted your time they change wrong things they make a system much more so at the end of the day this particular factory was able to the owner was able to fix his factory for close to half a million dollars.
And the factory start to work in a couple of days. So if I am the owner and I know the value of being out of work and paying all of this extra expenses.
Measured may consider early on to make the plays or money. To trade money for time not to trade time for money.
Number for differentiation between rich and poor as.
Rich will take steps forward when they are afraid when the other one concert and they don’t know they start to move forward.
There isn’t for you this is.
Urge people will always feel comfort they also feel they have a plan and the backup plan they have a way to go so if you if you maintain the original telethon. And you try to push yourself forward the more you are afraid the more the unknown are the more the.
Raise itself in front of you and you don’t know what you are getting into it you will move inside this opportunity on the other hand the poor I will run away in the face of fear the poor attitude will not late you know go in.
And experiment experience what.
The opportunity yes here are afraid you will always have a fear you always say it will not worth.
However it can work if you have the right set up.
Rich people will invest for the future.
So when the rich guy will have the attitude of investing in the future he will join programs he will try Who will he will spend today investment money not Coast money because he can see in the future the revenue which can be built.
On the other hand poor people will spend for the day so a poor attitude. We’ll get and count how much we spend today and they will never consider their revenue or return of investment coming in the future. Because they don’t have the mentality after.
Considering the outcome coming they always look at how much money it costs them not what the money invested what money they invest as this will drive a very interesting example like if we look at education for example in any university how much you invest in your kids to get educated and if you understand the stand education correctly when you invest.
You will be looking for a return of investment so if you want to do our M.B.A. or a master in business administration. You will invest close to one hundred thousand dollars and after two years of the series of working on the end your M.B.A. you will be looking for a better position which will pay back the money.
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However poor attitude will say oh no or one hundred thousand dollars Why do a cost me hundreds of dollars today.
If I have this hundred thousand dollars I will not spend it because I cannot see that return of investment in the future so if someone will offer to you a five thousand dollar program ten thousand dollar program where it can demonstrate that you can use this knowledge and only use this knowledge you can make more money in the future they’re each people invest however the poor people will look at the money as a cost. That second.
Differentiation between rich people. And poor people is rich people are disciplined about time they understand the value of the time they understand how to use their time because as the very beginning we talk about writing goals down looking for opportunity having libraries trade money for time and they take steps forward when they are afraid they invest in the future they are always disciplined about the time they know how much their time was. They don’t do stuff where you can hire experts doing it in a shorter time because when you get it done it will help you making a better investment for the future so why do you spend your time doing stuff where somebody else can do it on the other hand the poor people don’t waste time.
And we all get into a debate like what do you mean was wasting time like if I go to the grain or I would so I would door activities and said and meditate. It was doing time.
The answer to you is how you use it if you use your time to meditate or to take actions to be a better person to try to act and help people around you or try to enjoy to feel yourself up to talk go to your next chapter of your your knee you are very cautious about your time but when you just spend your time in front of your large T.V..
To just kill the time do you have ever decide that you want to do substitute just kill time. This is what we call it Wisting time so as I reach attitude we never kill the time we always find a use for the time. The last and the very first differentiation between rich people and poor people.
Is Rich people will have mentors will ask for guidance will try to learn from their men. Experience.
How to take advantage and don’t spend too much time doing stings which is people other people figure thousands they can move forward the poor people will try to figure out for themselves like they do do it yourself how many of us can can do it for themselves it’s a big question and I have to ask you one question in media question when you try when you look at your car and your car has an issue when you fix it or you take it to the mechanic to fix it you just do you do your own oil change you know that that is easiest job on maintaining a car is to to change oil. To do an early change. When you try to figure it yourself or you give it to an oil change place where they change your oil.
Definitely many of us are on the ridge side they will just go leaves our car go to work and come back and base the barrels for an oil change we don’t get ourselves into changing the oil ourselves and to be honest if you look at You Tube or any of this video information you’ll find out that changing out is very simple in your car and you can actually do it but why wouldn’t do it because we don’t want to figure out our salvage just it does not worth our time we have we can make some more useful use of our time by just giving somebody else to change OUR got our car or oil so we don’t have to do it so they’re rich attitude again is a poor attitude is what discriminate and what say if you are rich or poor to summarize it there are nine differentiations between the rich and poor rich sure right goes down I would advise each one of you to take a sheet of paper spend. Five minutes and just writes three goals.
Writes three goals of today Rice three goals for the week right three goals for the year right three goals for the month and.
Figure out ways how to achieve your goals they each People are always on the look for opportunities and they grab this opportunities and they take advantage of.
Which people usually have labors. And they look for libel is not lost Stevie’s.
Rich people they will continue to Lord they trade money to for time they take steps when they are afraid they invest for the future and they are very disciplined about time and they always have mentors who they learn from their mentors how to move forward my advice to you if doesn’t matter how much money you have in the bank look and adopt. A rich attitude and you will make a change in your life I will leave you with this word and I feel like this episode play subscribe ins about cast and listen to the other material I have overs are you are always welcome to send me feedback is our on my website or on. The comment line be underneath my bot cast and have a good day.
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Your fire of desire. It’s part of your mindset
you are the one
who brought your fire up or what YOU FOR done. I have been around for so long and I have been seeing so many different individuals who will decide to move in a way or another.
And once they make a decision. They are the one who doubt their decision to move back and move forward. Their desires to win is function of how much they want to go against fear we call it play NOT to lose
only play to win and there is also another play. Which is you play not to lose? or you play to win. The play to when it’s an action which are programmed in your brain when you start to when you don’t look at obstacles you don’t look at barriers you don’t look at what can hold you back. You figure out you find a way you can move forward take actions and move outside your comfort zone under start to be vulnerable exposed.
Maybe scared but not feared. So you don’t have a fear
If you play too when it’s a long tour is a long term play. When people do play to win. They were actually takes all the challenges and move forward. And there’s no outcome other than winning. Today I had won I had to play to when I did what this take. So I can get my issues told in the way I would like I started first by defining what’s my winning and then I figure out a strategy to achieve this winning the question is did you think that I was a nice guy. Definitely in the view of others. I was not the nice guy.
I was the guy who was aggressively trying to achieve an actual And I was the guy I was pushing pushing forward in a every single way without any doubt in my life that I should be able to achieve this particular winning status. When you play to when it’s a mentality which make you.
I want to be frank with you if I have to reduce friends you can lows. Because they are not really your friends they are just friends to keep you back with them so they are not very looking forward for you to when you can lose friends you can lose lovers you can lose family members because the minute everybody will show. Uncomforted, you are moving forward. They try to pull you back.
The reason for them to believe is the reason for them to feel comfort when you play too when it’s an attitude. It’s a mindset. It’s your brain which Bush you forward towards the big game for the big play towards a big win. And isn’t dark. It’s reality. When I play not to lose. It’s a different mindset. It’s a mindset where how to make it safe. How to walk away with the least amount of losses.
Not the maximum when I can have I can ship share with you. Few strategies and few techniques and several stories hundreds of stories or a decision to play not to lose. It’s a sign of people life because I would say I’m comfort where I am I don’t want to play to when I don’t want to ask it. I don’t want to be persistent. I don’t want to push hard. I don’t want to get outside my comfort zone. I would like to just to win. At a level which is limited. I call it limited when. I play not to lose
it’s deadly approach. I would never recommend anybody try to play not to lose play not to lose the alternative of losing playing not to lose is to try to compromise. What you want to do. So you don’t lose what you want to do. Play not to lose it’s a way that you don’t achieve you don’t push hard you don’t push forward. And what will happen after that. as you try to make it safe your mindset is are not to lose. It’s a mindset what you give you in a status coat. Let me give you an example
if you are doing good in your life and you work and suddenly you can you have the opportunity of doing some other something else. I.E. they let you go. They ask you not to come here again. So the question now is you want to play to win or you want to play to lose majority of us will say oh yeah let’s wait till we get similar job or different places because we don’t want to lose our. Experience. Very few of us will say no, I want to play to win.
I want to move forward to be able to push more and to push hard. So I can change what I was doing in order to win in my life. So you have to define Also when it in your life winning in your life. It’s a different nation. Which you have to sit and figure it out first. Do you when when you can be your belt or do you when when you achieve specific status. Do you when when you have a high risk life not stable income was a potential of very high return or do you when when you have a stable life and it just goes out like a government based employee who basically get what they get to go to do what they do and that’s it. And these are life. Several individuals I meet on a regular basis. Now that they want to play not to lose they want to play it safe. They want to wait.
They want to live on employment insurance and different source of social income so they don’t change what they have been doing because they’re afraid. They’re afraid. If they when they wouldn’t do they wouldn’t know what to do. I and particularly this an individual and as you know I don’t like to break the confidentiality and density of some people close to my heart because everybody here is close to my heart. So someone I met and I said you know why you don’t change what you are doing to this particular activities and this will get you a better income and you can move forward. They made it question he said. So what I would tell my family
I don’t have a job. So if I do this particular career in or if I do. This particular up opportunity is not a job so we actually work who shook. Who is my employer sits you. He said no I can’t I have to go back and tell them I work for somebody. So I love this. What do you mean what the manual for somebody. Why you don’t work for yourself why you don’t start what you can do. There’s a new knowledge base for your subject matter expert based on what you know. So you can move forward. So or stop and say no I can’t I have to work for somebody.
You are now listening to with way out the ultimate shell. But if we are been programmed not to lose. We have been programmed not to risk it. We aren’t with Brawn not to touch it. When we start early on in our life. We will tell you Oh it’s hard. Don’t touch. Oh it’s called Don’t touch you know what you have to this don’t do this don’t do this don’t do this.
OK Can you tell me what to do when you think about not doing it. You play to lose not to lose when you think about don’t actually what you want to achieve. Don’t change because you don’t feel comfort it don’t know. When you don’t know you play not to lose. So
I don’t know I thought about the sky having this particular topic today because I always play to win and not only when I always play to win big. And when it’s all or not which is my attitude. If you play well at all or not it’s a different attitude I call it the no loss. Nothing to lose game you know play without anything to lose. Can you would it all in. I’m not talking about gambling of the what our life. Can you have. The challenge and the change to say I would. All in I will move forward to a new pass in my life. When we look at individuals who changed our lives by a separation or divorce or just a change was a live was this people see a you know what we are fed up.
We want to just play to win big who want to just move on. We want to put all in to a different life. Can you have this attitude toward your work toward your profession toward your legacy to word your what you do and I’m sure to have income in. This particular attitude is not really. People when they play not to lose. They are more conservative they want to be an employee they want to be somebody who accept a lower level of winning because they want to play not to lose. I’m the guy who allows you to define and when and to guide you to win and win big. When bigger than what you can dream. And this is not. Just a simple talk. This is our strategies and messages and stuff I make you know stuff which can make you happy. This stuff which can make you happy is when you identify this year is this tough and what you need to do this. What Get in get you moving your life.
It’s never been about how do you live or why do you live is a beer is about what do you want to live in. You live in a winning status in a winning mindset. You know what’s Are you winning goals. If you know what are you winning goals. Let’s just build together their winning brain and the winning mindset from the winning mindset we can do so many so much and all of them is to win win big win here wish when Babe and my dream. Can I do it. My answer is yes you can do it. Let’s work together. If you want to when in your life if you play to win not to lose. And you play to that and not to play to not to lose. You should get hold of me and email me at Info to win your brand dot com. And I should be able to describe to you what can you do when you play to win not to play not to lose
and I hope you enjoy this particular but cast and looking forward to meet you in the following one. Thank you
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